As bridal showers and bachelorette parties (or should we say weekend getaways!) continue to become more and more elaborate, one thing remains constant... You can expect to shell out quite a bit of cash to participate in your pal's pre-wedding events! From the engagement party to the big day, here's a breakdown of what you can expect to spend as a bridesmaid:
Engagement Party $25-$100
Small Gift for the Couple $25-100
Bridal Shower (25 Guests or Under, Hosted by You)
Approximately $475-$725
Food and Beverage (Around $15 per guest) $375
Invitations and Postage $25-$50
Decorations $50-$100
Bridal Shower Gift $25-$200
Bridal Shower (30-50 Guests, Hosted by You)
Approximately $925-$1,200
Food and Beverage (Around $15 per guest) $750
Invitations and Postage $50-$100
Decorations $100-$150
Bridal Shower Gift $25-$200
Bridal Shower (If You're Attending)
Approximately $25-$200
Bridal Shower Gift $25-$200
Bachelorette Party
Approximately $120-$170
Remember, you'll most likely be expected to split the costs of the bride for the evening with the other bridesmaids and guests.
Limo Rental (Per Person) $50
Accessories & Games $20
Food and Beverages $50-$100
Bachelorette Weekend
Approximately $300-$1,250
Estimates based on a weekend trip. Keep in mind that in addition to your expenses, you might be asked to help split the cost of the bride's expenses as well.
Transportation to Destination $50-$500
Accommodations $100-$300
Food and Beverages $100-$300
Miscellaneous Activities (Think boat tour, night at the club, spa day etc) $150
It's easy to see how those pre-wedding event expenses can quickly add up.
While we're not telling you to blow off your pal's shower and bachelorette, it's important to consider the added costs before over‑committing yourself!