The Groom’s Ultimate Checklist to Looking Sharp on the Big Day

Emily Trine · February 13, 2025 · 2 min read

The Groom’s Ultimate Checklist to Looking Sharp on the Big Day
Photo by Angelica Marie

Wedding planning may often shine a spotlight on the bride, but let’s not forget about the groom—you deserve to turn heads, too! Whether you're going classic with a tuxedo or keeping it cool with a suit, nailing your wedding day look is all about preparation and attention to detail. Here’s a step-by-step checklist to ensure you’re looking sharp and stylish when you say, “I do.”

01.Start early: the power of preparation

Procrastination is the enemy of style. Start planning your wedding attire at least six months in advance. This timeline allows you to:

  • Explore different styles, colors, and fabrics.
  • Decide between renting and purchasing your outfit.
  • Coordinate your look with the wedding theme and your partner’s attire.

Taking your time means you can avoid the stress of last-minute decisions and ensure that everything fits perfectly.

02.Suit vs. tuxedo: know the difference

Choosing between a suit and a tuxedo is one of the first decisions you’ll need to make. While the two are similar, they differ in key ways:

  • Tuxedo: Features satin accents on the lapels, buttons, and side stripes of the pants. This is the go-to for black-tie or ultra-formal weddings.
  • Suit: Lacks the satin details, making it more versatile and suitable for a range of formalities, from casual to semi-formal.

When it comes to color, tuxedos are traditionally black or midnight blue, but modern trends have introduced options like white, burgundy, and even patterned designs. Suits, on the other hand, offer a broader range of colors and fabrics, from classic charcoal gray to trendy pastel shades. Generation Tux offers a convenient way to explore both options with their virtual fitting tools and home try-on service, making the decision process seamless.

Photos by Angelica Marie, Featured in A Whimsical Spring Wedding at the Bel-Air Bay Club
Photos by Angelica Marie, Featured in A Whimsical Spring Wedding at the Bel-Air Bay Club

03.Get the perfect fit

Fit is the cornerstone of a polished look. Even the most expensive suit or tuxedo will fall flat if it doesn’t fit well. Focus on these key areas:

  • Shoulders: The jacket should hug your shoulders snugly without any excess fabric or pulling.
  • Jacket Length: The hem should cover your backside and end just above the knuckles of your thumb when your arms are at your sides.
  • Sleeves: Aim for about half an inch of shirt cuff to show beyond your jacket sleeve.
  • Trousers: A slight break—where the fabric just grazes the tops of your shoes—is ideal for a modern look.

04.Explore styles & trends

Gone are the days of being limited to black tuxedos and navy suits. Today’s grooms have a plethora of stylish options to choose from:

  • Classic Black Tie: Timeless and elegant, this look features a black tuxedo, bow tie, and patent leather shoes. It’s perfect for formal evening weddings.
  • Bold Colors: Stand out with jewel tones like emerald green or sapphire blue. These rich hues add personality without compromising sophistication.
  • Patterned Fabrics: Try a patterned jacket, such as plaid or paisley, for a unique twist. Keep the rest of the outfit understated to let the pattern shine.
  • Seasonal Suits: For summer weddings, consider lightweight fabrics like linen in light gray or beige. For winter, opt for luxurious textures like velvet in deep, warm tones.

05.Coordinate with the wedding party

Your outfit should not only reflect your personal style but also coordinate with the groomsmen and bridesmaids. This creates a cohesive look for photos and ensures the wedding party feels unified.

  • Consider matching your groomsmen’s accessories, like ties or pocket squares, to the bridesmaids’ dresses.
  • Opt for complementary colors and patterns rather than identical outfits.
  • Use small details, such as unique boutonnières, to distinguish yourself as the groom.

This collaboration also extends to your partner. Discuss color schemes and styles to ensure your outfits look harmonious.

06.Accessorize with purpose

Accessories add personality and polish to your look. However, less is often more when it comes to wedding day accessories. Key items to consider include:

  • Shoes: Make sure they are polished and match the formality of your outfit. Oxfords or loafers are great choices.
  • Tie or Bow Tie: Choose a style and color that complements your suit or tuxedo.
  • Pocket Square: Add a touch of elegance with a pocket square in a coordinating or contrasting color.
  • Cufflinks: A subtle way to incorporate a personal touch, such as your initials or a meaningful symbol.
  • Boutonniere: Typically a single flower, this accessory should tie into the wedding’s floral arrangements.

07.Plan for comfort & practicality

While style is crucial, comfort should not be overlooked. Keep in mind the weather, venue, and length of your wedding day when choosing your attire:

  • For outdoor summer weddings, lightweight fabrics like linen or cotton will keep you cool.
  • For winter weddings, heavier materials like wool or velvet add warmth and sophistication.

08.Grooming: the finishing touch

Looking sharp isn’t just about the clothes. Proper grooming is the finishing touch to a flawless look:

  • Schedule a haircut about a week before the wedding to avoid any awkward grow-out phases.
  • Decide on your facial hair style and maintain it with regular trimming or a professional shave.
  • Keep your skin looking its best with a simple skincare routine leading up to the big day.
  • Treat yourself to a professional manicure to ensure your hands look clean and polished for close-up photos of your wedding ring.
Photos by Rachel Stelter Photography, Featured in A Romantic Summer Wedding at the Walnut Grove
Photos by Rachel Stelter Photography, Featured in A Romantic Summer Wedding at the Walnut Grove

Looking sharp on your wedding day doesn’t have to be stressful. With a little planning, attention to detail, and a willingness to explore new styles, you can create a look that’s uniquely yours.

Generation Tux simplifies the process with their wide range of styles, virtual fitting tools, and convenient free home try-on options. Whether you’re going classic or contemporary, this checklist ensures you’re ready to walk down the aisle with confidence and style.