A wedding’s energy - or vibe if you will - is just as important as its style. It’s the energy of the entire event from the activities down to the decor. It really comes down to one thing, what do you want your event to feel like?
Finding The Right Wedding Vibe
Sure, it’s a wedding, everyone will be expecting a heaping dose of romance! But is it going to be an all-night-long dance marathon kind of thing or more of a candlelit dinner and conversations by the fireplace energy? Here are some questions to discuss with your partner as you’re conceptualizing what kind of “vibe” you’d like to achieve for your big day:
- What are some of the best, most fun, most meaningful events you’ve attended as a couple? What kind of activities do you love to do together? How could you recreate that vibe at your wedding?
- How do you like your parties? Low key and intimate or exciting and dynamic?
- Is there anything significant you share as a couple that you can bring to your wedding? Whether it’s a location, style, or even a theme.
- What are some places that you’ve loved visiting as a couple? What do you love about them? How do they make you feel?
Wedding Style
Now that you’re thinking about the general feel of your wedding, it’s time to start translating that into visuals.Nailing down your ideal wedding style is a really important step to take care of early on in the planning process because it’s going to impact what vendors and venues you reach out to. You want the people around you to understand your vision. The best way to make that happen is by having a clear vision yourself!To help you out, here are some common wedding styles to think about:
Avant-Garde / Modern
This style is perfect for the fashion forward couple who wants a wedding with a sophisticated flare. This style of wedding normally uses a monochrome color palette with very understated and classy florals and decorations.
Barnyard / Rustic
This style of wedding has a more organic and earthy feel to it. It usually features shabby chic decorations and neutral touches throughout.
Beach
Beach weddings are incredibly popular because of the relaxing and soothing vibe that comes along with them. Beach weddings are perfect for the couple who wants sunshine and surf when they say “I Do”.
Bohemian / Indie
Boho weddings are usually laid-back and soft. A lot of times they’re held outside and make natural beauty a centerpiece. This kind of wedding evokes harmony and peace.
Classic / Romantic
Classic weddings have stood the test of time… for good reason! From the elegant gown to the gorgeous decor, this wedding style will never go out of style.
DIY / Homespun
DIY weddings are fun and collaborative, which is great because couples get to add their own personal touches to decorations, attire, and floral arrangements. This wedding style is all about working together to create something that’s as unique as your relationship.
Elegant / Glamorous
Elegant wedding ceremonies are impeccably styled and polished occasions. This style usually includes decorations and floral arrangements that scream “luxury”.
Vineyard
Vineyard weddings are… you guessed it(!)... set in vineyards! They’re perfect for wine lovers and couples find the rustic aesthetic charming. You can usually expect to see lots of string lights and unique decorations like wine barrels and wooden signs.
Vintage
Vintage weddings aim to transport guests back to past eras with period clothing and decorations. What period you go for is entirely up to you!
Whimsical
Whimsical weddings are all about bright, vibrant colors that show up in everything from stationary to the floral arrangements. They usually try to create a dream-like vibe. Think fairytale wedding!
Woodland
Woodland weddings are perfect for nature lovers who want to say their vows under the stars. Woodland weddings usually feature earthy tones when it comes to decor and a neutral color palette for attire.
Keep in mind that these are just a starting point, and no matter which style you feel drawn towards, your wedding is always going to be uniquely yours! However, using these terms can help communicate what you want to your vendors and will help when searching for venues that match the vibe you’re trying to achieve. Having examples and inspiration images is also super helpful, and some of these terms will probably help guide you in your inspo search on Loverly! (Or elsewhere but we’re just a tiny bit biased…)
Keep in mind that these are just a starting point, and no matter which style you feel drawn towards, your wedding is always going to be uniquely yours! However, using these terms can help communicate what you want to your vendors and will help when searching for venues that match the vibe you’re trying to achieve. Having examples and inspiration images is also super helpful, and some of these terms will probably help guide you in your inspo search on Loverly! (Or elsewhere but we’re just a tiny bit biased…)
As you consider your wedding style, keep in mind that it will greatly impact your overall wedding vibe. For example, a beach or DIY wedding will likely feel a little more relaxed or casual than say a glamorous or avant-garde style wedding, right? Of course, you can make any style more or less formal depending on your preferences, but ideally, your wedding should be a somewhat cohesive experience. That said, at the end of the day, all that matters is you, your partner, and your guests having a good time! Try not to overthink it and just trust that you’ll know what’s right for you, whatever that may be. If you’re wondering where to start, here are some questions or considerations to help you and your partner land on your wedding style:
- How do you decorate your home and personal spaces?
- What season is your favorite?
- What are some of your favorite colors?
- Do you have any shared interests or passions you can integrate into the style of your wedding?
- How would you each describe your personal fashion or style?
- What are some of your favorite places? Especially ones you’ve shared or experienced as a couple!
Still not sure where to start? Take the Loverly Style Quiz and we’ll whip up some Mood Boards to help you narrow down your wedding vibe and style.
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