9 Special Ways to Show Your 'Maids Some Major Gratitude

Hey, being a bridesmaid is a huge commitment. From the ever-growing financial responsibility to the mounting time and energy that goes into planning, your gals go through a lot to be by your side on the big day! It's important to show your 'maids some major gratitude, so we've got nine special gestures that will definitely do the trick... 1. Ask them the right way. When you ask your bestie to stand beside you on the big day, make sure to put some serious thought into the proposal. It can be as simple as giving her a sincere card or as elaborate as creating a photo box with some of your favorite memories, but a little thought and effort will go a long way! 2. Offer to help cover the cost of the dress. If you know that paying for bridesmaid dresses is going to be a problem for your girls (or your pick is super pricey...), offer to cover some or all of the cost of the gown. Just make sure that what you do for one, you also do for all! 3. Help your gals feel like their best selves on the big day. This one's easy! Help your crew feel confident and beautiful on the big day by being considerate of their body types and personal styles when deciding on the dresses, hair, and makeup. Consider giving guidelines instead of handpicking each and every detail of their look. 4. Make time for your friendship even while wedding planning. When you spend time with your BFFs, make sure the conversation isn't only about your wedding. If you constantly bombard them with questions and tasks, your friendship is likely to suffer. Be sure to ask them what's going on their lives, and provide the same kind of support you'd give without that ring on your finger. 5. Say thank you for each and every favor. Make sure to say thanks every time a bridesmaid helps out with a task or errand—whether it's in person or with an email or text. A simple thank you goes a long way! 6. Host a bridesmaid luncheon during your wedding weekend. Treat your girls for all their hard work! We suggest throwing a simple brunch or luncheon during the wedding weekend as a small token of your appreciation and to take a break from all the pre-wedding festivities. 7. Write each pal a special note on the big day. We're all familiar with the couple exchanging sentimental notes on the wedding day, but why not extend this tradition to friends as well? Your posse will definitely appreciate thoughtful handwritten notes on your wedding day. 8. Gift them something sentimental. It's commonplace to give your 'maids a gift on the day your wedding. Make sure to put careful thought into this one! And if you can't think of something that will be meaningful to the whole crew, consider a special gift for each girl. 9. Give them a shoutout during your thank you toast. If you and your partner are going to give a thank you speech at the reception, make sure to give a shoutout to the friends who have always stood by your side. Want more bridesmaid ideas? Skip the Traditional Bridesmaids Dresses and Try One of These Unique Looks! 10 Things You Should Never Say to a Bridesmaid 3 Things You Can Let Your Bridesmaids Choose Themselves