Everything You Need to Know About Popping The Question
A proposal is such a special moment, and when you’re the one proposing or being proposed to, there are key things you need to consider before popping the big question!
You don’t necessarily need to have a ring when you propose! In fact, many couples now are getting creative with engagement bracelets or tattoos. The ring is a symbol of your love, so if you’re not looking for the classic big diamond, there’s no “rule” that says you have to.
The BEST way to propose is to do it in a way that is meaningful and special for you and your partner. Whether it’s spontaneously at home on a Wednesday afternoon, or at the top of the Empire State Building after months of planning---every proposal is both meaningful and unique.
Before you propose, there are a few conversations you should have with your partner. With the thrill of marriage on the horizon, many couples tend to rush into things, but in reality, there are a few important conversations that need to be had before popping the question. Here is what to discuss:
Pictures are amazing keepsakes because they capture joy and surprise in an intimate moment. Plus, you can use them later for engagement party invites, save-the-dates, your wedding website, and so much more. If you don’t want to splurge on a photographer, you can always kindly ask a talented friend to discreetly snap a few pictures while in hiding. Or, if your photographer friend is part of the plan, make it seem like you’re taking a normal picture together before surprising your partner by getting down on one knee.
A picture’s worth a thousand words, but why not take it to the next level with a video? A video makes sure you capture every word (you’ve been practicing your proposal speech, right?). We’ve heard of plenty of couples who sort of forget all the sweet things their partner say just before popping the question — don’t let that be you! Just like pro photographers, skilled videographers can stay out of the way so your unsuspecting love won’t know the proposal is coming.
Proposals can be incredibly personal and intimate moments which is why lots of couples prefer to be alone — with no photographers or friends and family around to capture the moment. If that’s you, don’t worry! We LOVE proposal selfies! Just be sure to get both you and your fiance in the photo — and don’t forget the ring!
Whether you get engaged on an exotic vacation, at your favorite local spot or your own backyard, you can remember the special location by saving some memorabilia. While traditional souvenirs — Christmas ornaments, magnets, mugs, even postcards — are absolutely perfect, they might not be available. So get creative and find something meaningful that will last a lifetime.
You know how those special moments that you think you’ll remember slowly start to fade away over time? Do not let your proposal be one of them! The day it happens (or the day after) write down everything you can remember — what you said, what your partner said, both of your reactions, what you did right after. It could be a Facebook update, a blog post or just in your personal journal. You’ll cherish your writing years later!
If you’re the one planning the proposal, don’t let documenting the event be a last-minute thought. And if you’re the one who’s expecting a proposal? Bring your phone and prepare for some selfies!
Before you propose, there are a few conversations you should have before. Many couples tend to rush into things, but in reality, there are a few important conversations that need to be done. Here is what to discuss:
The conversation that no one likes to talk about (because it seems rude and unromantic) is money! This is one of the most important topics to discuss because the #1 cause for divorce after infidelity is actually finances. Knowing where your partner stands financially is key to avoiding financial turmoil that can put a huge strain on a relationship.
Do you want kids? Many partners break up after marriage because they never discussed whether or not they wanted kids. If you and your partner do want kids, it is important to discuss how you align when it comes to raising children--religion, education, parenting styles, number of children, etc. And if one partner is adamant on not having children but you are, that is something to really think about and consider.
It’s ok to argue, but it’s important to understand how you argue. Having arguments in a relationship is normal and healthy, however, you must analyze patterns when it comes to arguing. Does your partner become aggressive or hostile? Does one partner always have to have the final word or last say? Does your partner apologize? These questions are important because as your marriage progresses, arguments may become more serious. Therefore, it is important to you know how to fight fair.
Before you decide to spend your life with someone, it is important you understand their personal history and where they come from. You don’t want to go into a relationship with secrets, therefore it is important to unearth if there are any possible childhood traumas, concerns surrounding physical or mental health, or any other significant details regarding your partner’s personal history that are important for you to know before moving forward in a marriage.
When it comes to spending your future with someone, it is important to see if your futures align. Having common goals and ideals are necessary towards achieving success in your marriage because it ensures that you and your future spouse will be aligned on what you want and how to make them reality. If your goals and ideals do not align, you’ll need to discuss how that may impact your relationship and how you can support each other in pursuit of your individual goals all while maintaining your relationship.
The center diamond defines the mood and character of an engagement ring. While round diamond engagement rings are consistently the most popular, many other stunning options are available. From the romantic, vintage oval diamond to the elegant Asscher, each shape holds a remarkable and unique appeal.
Set the round diamond in a solitaire ring for a simple, elegant look, or pair with a modern halo ring for the ultimate brilliance.
A blend of classic brilliance and contemporary angles, the princess diamond is a very popular choice for engagement rings.
A stunning hybrid of antique diamond shapes, the cushion shaped diamond is an increasingly popular choice for engagement rings.
With its large table and distinctive step cut pavilion, the emerald shaped diamond is inspired by its namesake gemstone.
A brilliant facet pattern delivers scintillating fire, while its rectangular or square shape creates a distinctive ring style.
While the oval diamond was developed relatively recently — in the early 1960s — it elicits a soft and vintage charm.
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There are so many places to propose! Whether it's on a lavish travel getaway or at the place you first met...the best place to propose is somewhere unforgettable! If you’re looking to propose in some of Instagram’s most popular proposal locations, then consider planning a
New York proposal
or popping the question in one of Europe's most iconic destinations.
